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Introduction

Charlotte who ?

Awooooo !
Am Charlotte, nice to meet you c:
I can also go by : Cha, Cham, Amélie, or my username, frezlotte, frèz (yes it sounds like strawberry in french :3)

Am a 25 yo woman from Fribourg, always lived in this canton since i spawned.

I do a lot of stuff if it's interesting to me, but especially around IT (worked for 7.5 yrs as programmer), home automation, services hosting, security/OSINT, electronic, computer generated graphics (cables.gl / webGL), music (prod+piano (just starting))

I'm very silly, sometimes too much so, feel free to reach out if i ever {did/could} hurt anyone

Other than that i love having ppl over at my place, i made it extra cosy, lots of pretty lights comfy plaids and bean bags big projector and a lot more

Also have >100 plushies, im doing an inventory cause it takes too long to count them all >~<

Looking forward to exchange/meet yall (╯✧▽✧)╯

Know me more :

What i don't like

Social :

  • People trying to finish my sentences with little to no idea of what i'm gonna say
  • People that think they know what i want so they don't ask me and it ends up being the opposite of what i want
  • People that asks to ask, just ask please... (dontasktoask / nohello.net)
  • Not keeping secrets secret
  • lies
  • Taking roundabout/far-fetched measure to avoid confrontation / a subject
  • Being dishonest
  • People who constantly talks about weather
  • Senseless conflicts
  • Loud talking at night or morning when my ears a very sensitive
  • Straight cis couples /hj
  • Frequent uncleanness
  • Morning/bad breath
  • Certain kind of drunk-ness
  • Certain kind of drug-ness
  • Racisme, Sexism, Religion, Misogynie
  • Eating in bed
  • Outside cloths in bed

Violence / Sex :

  • Fake punching
  • Pinned to wall- knees "between legs"
  • Getting my ___ grabbed
    • Buttock cleft
    • Toes
  • [intimate setting] People incapable of taking measure to respect my consent, i can easily freeze and go mute if someone go past my consent, unless this person tries to get my explicit consent back, they can go as long as i don't breakdown crying.

Food :

  • I hate:
    • Pears
    • Oreos
    • Speculoos
  • I dislike:
    • beer

Environnement :

  • Phobia ( kinda ) related
    • Closed space without ventilation ( i need fresh air )
    • Hot moist air
    • Being unable to move ( i might freak out )
  • Trauma
    • Sudden and/or loud noises (esp. in my ears)
    • VSS / Gore subjects
      • -> my brain is very efficient at cloning situations like that and making me have nightmares / sleep paralysis with me as the victim
  • Bright light
  • Fluorescent light source and HDR -> Ophthalmic migraine
  • Dishes that are not perfectly spotless
  • Windows and Sharepoint
    • Objectively waste of time and efforts

Misophonie

Doing some specific noise in my ears can trigger me:

Wat

Distance de mes oreilles

Apply to online convo

note

Teeths noises

<= 0.5m


Makes me realllly uncomfy

Finger popping

<= 0.5m

If loud


Mouth (moist) noises

<= 1.0m

If loud


Burps

<= 1.0m

IT DOES

Yuck